What should you do if a guy thinks you stalk him?

Answer 1

There is a difference between a love-sick young man following you around or trying to fit into your group or getting your attenion and a stalker that skulks behind bushes, trees or stands across the street and follows you everywhere. If this young man is stalking you by sneaking around and standing across the street from your home; perhaps uttering threats to you or seems to be everywhere you are and is angry that you are dating then you need to tell your parents or at least your employer or a good friend. Then you should go to the police and get a restraining order although restraining orders are seldom worth the paper they are written on it may be just enough of a deterrent to stop the stalker. Never walk alone during the night and if you are in a secluded area alone walk down the middle of the road carefully and not besides bushes or trees; carry pepper spray (it's illegal, but it's a good weapon and could save your life) or, take defense classes for women. If you drive do not park in under-ground parking or out of the way darkened parking lots; do not park by a van as a victim can quickly be shoved into a van without anyone seeing; before getting into your car look inside the car first (especially the back seat.) If you are shopping and it's dark then either go with a friend or when you leave the mall go to your car with a group of people. If you spot your stalker while at the mall get security and they will safely see you to your car. If you are grocery shopping and you are nervous you can ask the cashier to have someone accompany you to your car. Keep one or two lights on in your home. If you live alone and can afford it get an alarm system. If you own a car sleep with your car keys under your pillow or near you at all times so you can press the alarm system on it should you even hear a noise outside and suspect your stalker is trying to get in. The high pitch of a car alarm will awaken neighbors and it will be enough for the stalker to get out of the area. If you have a large dog do not seclude the dog to one room, but have the dog sleep in the same room as you. Even little dogs can be a warning signal and are extremely loyal to their owners. There are petitions being made to have better stalking laws without waiting until the stalker does bodily harm before the police will intervene. Often by the time a stalker may attack his victim it is often too late.

Answer 2

If your not stalking him, and he is either calling you or seeing you and accusing you of it, most likely he is the one that is stalking.