I'd suggest looking into the possibility of you both having sex therapy.
It depends if your partner wants to
People with STDs should not have sex and should inform their partner of their disease.
You should consult a sex therapist. You should have a discussion with your partner regarding those things that you both find to be sexually arousing or exciting and you should try to sexually gratify each other. You should also read articles in books and magazines which relate to sexual behaviors and activities.
well you should love the person you have sex with, also you should be trying to cause pleasure to yourself and your partner. you can do this by buying condoms and lubricant
I don't quite understand. To control when you have sex, you either need to be abusive or promiscuous which you should NOT be. To control how you have sex, you'll need to be aware of yourself and your partner.
I would not recomed it, you should get treatment and if yu contuine to have sex with this person, you can cause your body harm and have a chance of spreading it to someone else.
Yes. The close proximity of two people during sex makes it likely that your new partner will get that disease too. The partner should be aware of that risk and not get it as a surprise.
so what you are trying to say is that his partner is trying to ruin your relationship with your son? this is a common thing girls can be quite catty or if his partner is of the opposite sex this is very immature either matter of the sex. and as far as his own kid your son should not be with this girl if his kid means anything to him. this is a very hard thing to do, leaving a person you have come to care for but you should let your son know that he shouldn't choose a woman over his own kid and explain why this is a terrible situation and if he doesn't listen let him find out for himself. who really is going to be there for him in the end.
Your partner
Get tested and if you can convince him then he should get tested as well. Above all only have protected sex with any man - protect yourself.
well you can buy sex toys or find a male partner also don't hurt yourself trying anything stupid
You should consult with an attorney who specializes in legal family matters related to same sex relationships.