I am very sorry to hear this. It always hurts and many of us go through at least one lost love. You are actually in a grieving process so you should let it take it's course. Give it a couple of months, start going out with your buddies, party, have some fun, and before you know it you'll be back in the swing of things. I am a great believer that there is someone special out there for each one of us if we look and listen, but often, we are so into ourselves with problems we don't see what is before our very eyes. Just go with the grief, leave the girl alone, and then get out with your buddies and try to have a good time. I was married for almost 4 years to a husband that was abusive and a cheater and even though he didn't treat me all that well, the feeling of a failed marriage didn't sit well with me and at first I blamed myself. Through a good friend (male) I realized it wasn't my fault. I went through the grieving process, then quit the job I had, found a new one, made new friends and moved on with my life. Thank God, I did, because I met my wonderful husband and we've been married 33 years. Although there is no limited time for grieving, a month of this is enough and it's time for you to get out with those friends of yours. At first you won't feel like getting involved, but before you know it one night when you are out, you'll realize there is life after this girl. Good luck Marcy
Yes because if you don't love each other than take it back a STEP and just become friends
Yeah, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!! :)
because they were better as friends
Be friends first then see what happens from there.
Just be friends with him because if you try to get him to go back out with you then he might not even want to be your friend anymore.
Stay away they are both trash to treat you this way to start with. You need new friends.
It is not good. You and her should not be known or seen together because other people might think otherwise.
Because she got to busy with her schedule but they are still friends!
Yes of course, I am friends with my ex. But its up to you, if you want to be friends of course, but if that's why you broke up then you should think a bit more.
No, there's a reason either you broke up with him or he broke up with you and trying to be like friends with someone you broke up with is very awkward so there's no point.
So there's this girl I REALLY like and we are both in 8th grade. I know she likes me back because she told me. We went out last year but she broke up with me because her friends were teasing her. Not all of her friends, the only ones that didn't tease her are also friends with me, and they say that we should go out again. But she is embarrassed to like me and go out with me because her friends that made fun of her before still do. Do I just move on because she's too embarrassed of me to admit anything? Or should I just wait and see how things turn out?
no it's their fault for letting jealousy get the best of them, in other words.... you are not the exact reason they broke up, the reason they broke up was because they were jealous and couldn't see that the person they were with really liked them. Thanks a bunchhh
I think it depends how you guys ended up after you broke up, and why you broke up. If you guys are friends and ended it in good terms then why not? No.
i 've been with this guy before for years...then broke it off because of my parents.....i regret it....what do i do? please help me
It depends on who broke up with who. If he broke up with you ask if you can still be friends. If you broke up with him you should just go up to him and say that you are sorry but you don't want the breakup to ruin your friendship.
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I don't know what you have to heal about because you broke your ex-girlfriend's heart. You cheated and broke that bond of trust with your girlfriend. Now you're paying the price. However, her friends should butt out and leave it up to the two of you to work out one way or the other. Apparently your girlfriend is immature and is playing the "wounded sparrow" scenerio to get friends to feel sorry for her and do her own fighting for her. The both of you should be discussing this and no one else should be involved.
no he should not because i use to have a lot of boyfriends and i broke up with them because of that
I don't get this. but no. she broke your heart. that's different.
probably because hes a jerk & is upset that you broke up with him.
they broke up because she wasnt as into him as he was. they decided to just stay friends.
Simple. They care about you. And you can tell.. because together or not, they still want you in their life.
They broke up a long time ago. They broke up because they just wanted to be friends and they were both separating for their careers.
if your boyfriend and you broke you become friends by talking about what happen or suggest to be friends most people who do brake up end up becoming very good friends