What should you do if you want to stop being a lesbian?
You should get counselling to help with your low self esteem. Also you cannot change your sexual orientation.
Most authorities agree that you cannot stop BEING a lesbian. However, if you think it would be less destructive to your family and you want to try, you might stop engaging in lesbian sexual activity or asserting your lesbian identity to your family. That can be a personal choice, although a difficult one for many, and one that may result in psychological distress for you.
A lesbian can deny her sexuality, but there is no real "avoiding" it. Sexuality is an intimate part of who we are, and there is no switching sexualities. It is perfectly natural to not want to be a lesbian anymore, especially given the homophobic attitude that is so prevalent today, but one should celebrate who they are.
I have a best friend and i always find myself talking about sexual things around her and for some reason i think i might be in love with her but i don't want to be a lesbian what should i do?
As long as you are still attracted to guys - and it sounds like you are - then you're not a lesbian. Being a lesbian means only being attracted to girls. If you're attracted to guys, you can only be straight or bisexual. If you are attracted to guys, and are also attracted to your friend, that would make you bisexual. As far as what you should do about being in love with her goes…
How do you tell your best friend no when she ask you out but the thing is your not a lesbian but she is?
My friend Liam keeps coming on to me we both guys and i find it really awrkward when he flirts with me what should i do should i stop being friends with him?
I want a boyfriend but you have a feeling to a girl but not like love its as if you want her to be like a sister cousin or aunt just be in your family but not as lovers am i lesbian?
What can you do if you have grown very tired of being a lesbian and want to be with this guy on your bus and start a family with him and leave your lesbian days behind you?
You can walk up to that guy and tell him your feelings - whether he reciprocates the feelings is another matter It is your CHOICE whether you want to be with a man or woman, and which man or woman you are with, so you are not forced into being with somebody you don't want to be with You have free will - USE IT!
You should figure out what you want from him. You have to decide what YOU want before you can move forward...if you don't want to get back together, then you have to let him know so he can stop trying. If you DO want to get back together, then communicate that to him and stop wasting time not being together! Good luck!
If you have an attraction for wemon, than do what you want to do. Lesbians are being more widely accepted by society in this day and age. Coming from a very happy little lesbian, if you feel the attraction to a woman than seek it out. I have been in a healthy lesbian relationship, for over two years now.
On facebook i have a lesbian friend I have a girlfirend my girl writes on everything my lesbian friend does and most things said are sexual innuendoes ive told my girl to stop but won't what do i do?
Tell her it hurts you, and that she needs to respect your lesbian friend because of the choice they've chosen. If she doesn't respect it, then it means she doesn't respect what you want. She's not worth it if she doesn't respect that, or the what you want and the choices you choose. No offense to anyone.
No you should not. It is who they are if they are lesbian, if they are not then you don't need to be refering to girls as that. Sexuality is a very personal thing and we all have things that we don't want other people to comment on so we should respect other peoples right to privacy and to their own sexuality and not use it as a means to hurt them.
Your friend is really ugly and every time you're with her nobody talks to you should you stop being her friend?
No. It's the ones who stop talking to you that you should stop being friends with. Do you really want to be friends with someone who can be that shallow, cruel and mean? And if you stop being "friends" with her because of that, then that would make you no better than the ones who don't talk to you when you are with her. It is much better to have one true friend, no matter…