Not use them as a reference.
Look at it this way: they've told you they don't want to be a reference. If you use them anyway, what sort of reference do you think they're going to give?
Politely accept their refusal.
politely accept there refusal
to be smart person
MISERLY
he might have a crush on her or loves her after all someone who loves another person are reluctant to leave that person
A person who provides a reference is often referred to as a referee.
A begrudger is a person who begrudges - who is reluctant about something or who gives something reluctantly.
A cajoler is a person who cajoles - who persuades someone to do something they're reluctant to do.
You sould order both and have it your way. You sould order both and have it your way.
The homonym of reluctant is "willing".
Only after the person has agree'd to be your reference.
A person who is chicken-hearted and is very reluctant to give away any of his possesion