Being a 14 year old, with a mild form of the condition, I think that the most helpful thing you can do is be understanding, try to adapt to his/her needs.
-Try to allow him/her to have his/her own routine where possible.
-Try to give him/her personal space and try not to have too much eye contact.
-Try to be quieter and make the environment quieter.
But it isn't just you that can help.
-Try to get your son or daughter involved with a group for people with Aspergers.
-Try to get the school to be more understanding.
There's a lot more ways to help, I hope that helps.
The Transporters DVD helps Children with Aspergers Syndrome as it tries to help build what they are lacking in certain areas such as facial expression recognition or emotion.
Familys do not have to go through it alone, there is help and support available for people living with children, or anyone with Aspergers. There are youth clubs that offer free services and will take good care of the child for a start.
Possibly, but I would take it in pill form!
To support somebody with Aspergers Syndrome you've got to try and give them plenty of independence, understanding and time to get to know them. Having been supported myself by a support learner I was left bitter as the support learner treated me like a remedial.
for this you will need a second or even a 3rd opinion ASAP, if your son has the classic symptoms of this disease he will need immediate care. ---------------------- Added on 5/18/10: Aspergers is not a disease, it is a disorder, or even, more specifically, a syndrome. It is possible that a child exhibits signs of Aspergers, although 4 is a young age. Typically, young kids are given a diagnosis of Pervasive Development Disorder, because the kids seems "spectrum-y" but they can't pin down a specific diagnosis. Although, if the child exhibits superior intellectual ability, or other traits which are commonly found in Aspies (hyperlexia, for instance) then one could very possibly say that a child is showing signs of Aspergers, even if a diagnosis of AS can't be quite ascertained yet. Autism spectrum kids are being diagnosed earlier, and more accurately. If the person is qualified and capable of an accurate diagnosis, then it's not unheard of to see fairly obvious signs as young as 4. As far as immediate care, yes, Aspies do need help beginning as young as possible. Although, getting the wrong help can be more harm than help. I have Aspergers, so does my son, and I am an Aspergers Specialist, and I help (mostly) parents. I have found that when parents understand that Aspergers doesn't need to be "fixed", rather "managed" and guided, they see that really the parents play the largest part in the success of the child, over any single other thing.
While it can be more challenging to make friends when you have Aspergers Syndrome, I believe there is still good reason to have hope. Society as a whole is becoming increasingly aware of Aspergers and Autism and more accepting of people who are on the Autism Spectrum. Take for example, the TV show, The Big Bang Theory. While it is never actually stated, I highly suspect that Sheldon's character is based on an individual who has Aspergers, and he is certainly an endearing fellow who has a close-knit group of friends whom he can count on. There are plenty of examples in real life as well of people who have Aspergers Syndrome who are living full, productive lives, have jobs, friends and many other accomplishments to their credit. Don't put too much pressure on yourself , striving for the hundreds or even thousands of so-called "friends" that a lot of young people have on their social media pages. Many would question how real any of these friendships really are. Start with one person and go from there. When approaching a person in your efforts to begin a friendship, I have read about many success stories that involve individuals with Autism taking a very forthright approach, telling people from the start about their condition. Explain to people whom you are interested in getting to know better that you have Aspergers and tell them what it's all about. Explain that it is sometimes difficult for you to read body language. Ask them if they'd mind giving you tips and advice from time to time in conversation to help you work on these skills. If sometime is not receptive to this, chances are that you don't really want him or her as a friend anyways! As the parent of an individual who has Autism, I know that I cannot truly understand and appreciate the challenges that you face as a person with Aspergers, but hope that of my suggestions can be of some help to you.
Not at all.People with Aspergers fall in love and care about people, just like people without Aspergers.The thing is, people with Aspergers have their own style of communication, and people without Aspergers have a different style of communication. Emotions manifest in certain ways in persons with Aspergers, and in slightly different ways with non-Aspergers. So sometimes two people both with Aspergers get along well, because they understand eachother, and can read each other's emotions better. Sometimes neurotypicals (that is, people without Aspergers) don't propperly read the emotions of someone with Aspergers, and vice versa. So there can be challenges in a neurotypical/Aspie relationship, but that relationship is not doomed. You just have to both learn to understand each other, which is perfectly possible if you both want to.The important thing to remember, is that each person with Aspergers is a unique individual with an individual personality, just like each person without Aspergers.I have Aspergers. My closest friend does also. We have a lot of affection for each other. Sadly, not everyone else understands me. But he does. Our friendship proves that we are capable of deep emotionally felt love.And it really is possible for a deep relationship to exist when one person is neurotypical (not aspergers) and the other has aspergers. But it does really help when you understand Aspergers.Aspergers: Capable of deep love, like anyone else.May have more subtle or different ways of showing emotion.Tended to be socially awkward when young. May have learned social skills in adulthood, or may still come across as a little weird.Will always have an Obsession. What this is about, depends on the individual. If he/she is in love with you, you may be their Obsession.
Yes, it will help!!
nothing can cure down syndrome but physical and speech therapy help
Dr. Tony Attwood! But unless you live in Australia, you will have to settle for buying his books! Lol! I'm unclear if whether you are asking what kind of doctor is good for those who have Aspergers, or if you are looking for a good doctor... But I will do my best to answer, either way... Typically a psychologist who is experienced with autism would do an evaluation and diagnosis. A Psychiatrist would prescribe any medication. (Although there isn't any "medicine for autism", those on the spectrum almost always have issues with depression and/or anxiety, due to feeling like a fish out of water... Other diagnoses like ADHD with the Aspergers may mean other kinds of medication, too.) Some go to occupational and "speech" therapy, although those are professionals, not doctors. The schools have a diagnostician, who has a degree in psychology with other schooling in things like special education. Adults (and kids, in my opinion actually benefit very much from something called Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. This helps the Aspie change the way they feel about themselves, by changing what thoughts trigger which emotions. (You think about something, which triggers an emotions. Bad emotions, bad thoughts.) Unfortunately many doctors don't understand Aspergers, things like thought processes, motivations, etc. It's one thing to be knowledgeable about Aspergers, and another to really be able to understand the thinking. I'm an Aspergers Specialist, and I have Aspergers, so that really help me help the parents understand why their kiddo is doing what they are doing, and the best way to help the kiddo do it differently. If you are looking for someone to help you, I would suggest finding someone who is actually on the spectrum.
The Down Syndrome Organisation of the UK has a wonderful website. To help you find out more about the syndrome, see the Related Link.
An irreversible-developmental problem is one where the problem cannot be totally eliminated. Down syndrome is one example of an irreversible-developmental problem, although steps can be taken to help minimize its effect.