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First - you need to care for yourself, as ay child with reactive attachment disorder can make home life completely crazy! In my experience with RAD, the parents take the brunt of the criticism and the blame for their child's behaviors. I went through it and know many others who have as well. In fact, I wrote a free guide for parents and caregivers. If you would like a copy you can request one. It is titled 'The Ten things you Need to Know to Stay Sane!'

Most importantly, you must allow yourself room to feel.. even if your feelings are difficult. There is help and hope for your child, but it can come at a high cost [emotionally and financially] to your family. The guide spells out some important things to remember about your child and his beliefs and behaviors. It is not his fault... it is a tragic under development of his brain function that keeps him from trusting you. The best thing you can do with these children is to not get sucked in to their emotionally manipulative games, and to stay firm and consistent in your messages of love and trust to him. Also - finding a competent therapist is a must to help him 'rebuild' his own life story about why he feels the way he does, as well as teaching him appropriate behaviors and reactions to others.

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