There will be eulogies, there will be the 23rd psalm, there will be a prayer called El Malei Rachamim (God, full of mercy, usually chanted in Hebrew), and there will be the Mourner's Kaddish (an Aramaic prayer). The coffin, if present, will be closed. The entire service can be conducted at the graveside, or it can be conducted in the synagogue or funeral home. After the service, if it's not at the graveside, people will go to the graveside and conduct the burial. It is common to repeat the 23rd psalm, El Malei Rachamim and the Kaddish if they were said earlier elsewhere, and then, after the deceased is lowered into the grave, the immediate family members and then everyone else present is invited to shovel dirt into the grave. Sometimes this is just a ritual clod or two per person, leaving the work to the gravediggers, but I have been to funerals where the mourners entirely filled the grave. Hard physical work is one way to deal with grief. After the burial, everyone returns to the synagogue (or any facility with a decent social hall) for the "meal of condolence." There's a ritual lhand washing after leaving the cemetery before entering the building, and expect real food at the meal. If the family wants, there will be an afternoon service after the meal, giving the close relatives a chance to say the Mourners Kaddish again.
Yes, it was.
Masons do not expect money for performing a funeral service for a brother. A masonic funeral is a right afforded to all Master Masons (and in some jurisdiction Entered Apprentices and Fellowcrafts) in good standing.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
No, non-Jews are not counted as part of a minyan for any service. Depending on denomination, Jewish women might not be counted either.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
Alvin I. Fine has written: 'Service in memory of Stanley H. Sinton' -- subject(s): American Jewish sermons, Jewish Funeral sermons
D. Weinberger has written: 'The funeral and cemetery handbook =' -- subject(s): Burial laws (Jewish law), Handbooks, manuals, Jewish Funeral rites and ceremonies, Jewish mourning customs, Jewish funeral rites and ceremonies
Love and respect
I am assuming you mean "What should a non-Jew do at a Jewish funeral?" If that is your question, then the answer is: don't do anything that stands out. Just follow the lead of those around you, carrying yourself in a conservative manner. Wear business attire and sit in the appropriate section by gender. Remain quiet for the funeral service and the burial service. Do not accept any offers for participation in carrying or moving the casket or filling in the grave, as these should be performed by Jews.
Friends and family of the deceased
Yes, but it is not required.
Some recommended funeral service books for those looking to learn more about planning and organizing a meaningful funeral service include "The Funeral Director's Guide" by Alan D. Wolfelt, "Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies" by Alan D. Wolfelt, and "The Complete Guide to Planning the Perfect Funeral" by Elizabeth Meyer. These books provide valuable insights and guidance on how to plan and organize a meaningful funeral service.