That is a decision for the couple getting married. It will be dictated by things like their religion and their nationality and their personal preferences. So the answer is different for each couple.
Generally, the accepted language for a wedding invitation is formal. If the wedding is going to be less formal, then the invitations should follow that example.
You should look for a buffet server that will keep food warm. A heated by water buffet server would be best for a wedding.
Depending on the role played in the wedding, attire for the wedding dance varies. The bride traditionally wears a white wedding dress and the groom a tuxedo or suit. The bridesmaids typically wear the outfits assigned by the bride. Guests of the wedding should avoid white or black and should wear an outfit appropriate for the type of wedding taking into account formality and a possible theme.
I think you may be thinking of the Wedding Elvish which is a type of wedding ring
No your second wedding should not e the same as your first wedding. Since you have experienced what your first wedding feels like then your second wedding should be more calm, less hectic, and more enjoyable and soothing. The second wedding should not be as long as the first and there should not be that much intricate design but dont think of the second wedding as just a party with a gathering of people.
People from both sides should pay for the wedding
You can give your fiance his wedding gift the day before the wedding or on your wedding night as it should be private when the two of you exchange gifts.
Yes, the fiancee should see the wedding band before the wedding to make sure she likes it and that it fits.
What type
You should send it out to the people who are getting married;or to wedding planers
At the time there is no wedding planner insurance coverage. You should have a contract taht allows for a refund and damages.
about 2 months beofore the wedding.