Please specify who He is.
Athena
Eurymachus attempts to reason with Odysseus after Antinous is killed and Odysseus reveals himself.When Odysseus is a beggar:Antinous attempts to reason with Odysseus when Odysseus is begging for food from him.Eurymachus attempts to reason with Odysseus, even offering him a permanent job at his estate. Odysseus rebukes Eurymachus and refuses the offer.
Circe keeps Odysseus on her island for a year by providing a good life style for Odysseus and his men, including Odysseus lying with her. Calypso also lies with Odysseus, although she keeps him on her island passively by not helping him escape.
Rather than just referring to the Trojan war, all throughout, Athena was helping Odysseus.
Poseidon turns the Phaeacians ship into stone
Poseidon is in Ethiopia at the beginning of the Odyssey.
no because he thougt that they would die
Helping a neighbor is a reason for being late. Husband is ill would be a reason for being late.
he ate the wild kitten
Poseidon was on the side of the Trojans, Odysseus was not. Odysseus also blinded Poseidon's son, a Cyclops... whose name I will not attempt to spell.
His father is Posiedon. That is one of the reason Odysseus is lost.
she has to weave a robe for Odysseus