Threaten his family a little.
If a creditor refuses to give you payment address, you still owe them money. This might be frustrating but does not get you off the hook.
Yes it is. They just don't like the amount you have chosen.
Marriage counseling. Get a separate bank account. Get a divorce.
no. it depends what company
Yes.
you can sue them
get a lawer and sue her ! they can make her sign the papers !
Q1) "If I offer to make a payment on this debt can they legally refuse it?" Yes. They are under NO obligation to accept anything less than the original agreed amount. Simply, this means that you originally had a payment plan and breached it. They do not have to accept any other offered plan (or payments). Q2) "I have heard that if a creditor refuses any type of payment on a debt that it was automatically considered paid in full. Is this true?" NO!! NO!! NO!! That is an old 'wives tail' that probably derived from the requirement that payments must be in 'legal tender' and if refused, the debt MIGHT be found as waived. For example, you can pay this debt (in full) in pennies, nickles, dimes, dollars, etc. If the creditor refuses these legal tenders, the debt MIGHT be found to be waived. However, the creditor is NOT obligated to accept less than the full amount, nor in non-legal tender (horses, hogs, chickens, etc.). ....more about it you can visit: http://lawvolunteers.com/law/838/42838-c-collection-agency-refuse-payment.html
What do you do if you over payed on a law suit
The entry for a bill discounting to be dishonored is made when the drawee refuses to accept or make payment on the bill. It is dishonored by non-acceptance or non-payment.
You have to file a creditor's claim against the estate of the father.
I would approach the city council and ask them to either direct enforcement or modify the city code to match the reality of code enforcement.