on valentines say or even your anniversery
No your second wedding should not e the same as your first wedding. Since you have experienced what your first wedding feels like then your second wedding should be more calm, less hectic, and more enjoyable and soothing. The second wedding should not be as long as the first and there should not be that much intricate design but dont think of the second wedding as just a party with a gathering of people.
People from both sides should pay for the wedding
You can give your fiance his wedding gift the day before the wedding or on your wedding night as it should be private when the two of you exchange gifts.
Yes, the fiancee should see the wedding band before the wedding to make sure she likes it and that it fits.
You should send it out to the people who are getting married;or to wedding planers
about 2 months beofore the wedding.
who ever cancels the wedding should have to pay for it .
Swearing wedding dresses in the wedding has become a tradition.
If you can see them through your wedding dress, then no.
Either works
* Your invitations should have included her, but it could be an oversight. Yes, you should send her a wedding invitation even though it's late. If she's good enough to be at your wedding shower and you accept her gift, then she should be good enough to come to the wedding. This lady has class! She came to the wedding shower and was happy for you and wouldn't embarrass you by asking if she could come to the wedding.
The first question should be the budget of wedding