You can either contest a divorce, which involves going to court and pleading your case, or you can accept it, in which case the marriage is over and the family assets are divided up in a manner that you and your divorcing spouse can agree upon. (If you can't agree, then the courts can decide for you, although this tends to involve high legal expenses.) It is not likely that you will both remain in the same house.
Individual states impose a specific time period before a divorce can be filed, whether contested (meaning one party does not want the divorce) or uncontested (meaning both parties agree to divorce.) That time period is the time in which the couple have not "lived under the same roof" in most places, but may vary in your state, so check with the court to be sure. AFTER "filing" there is then another time period before the divorce can finally occur.
Even if both parties agree, they still may have to haggle about the specific division of marital assets, custody of children, payments of child and spousal support and many other things.
Anywhere
Ask your attorney about suing your husband for divorce "in absentia).
Yes the papers an be served in the state of California.
If you haven't been served with divorce papers, then you aren't divorced no matter what he says.
Today as divorce cases are on the increase in all the states including California , the papers will soon be served out as the pile of papers just increase and make it difficult for everybody.
If you serve your spouse and he/she refuses to sign, you may be able to win your divorce by default. Divorce by default happens when the person served fails to respond to the legal documents.
You are supposed to be served with the divorce papers in less than 90 days.
If your spouse was served PROPERLY with paperwork and they do not sign or respond by the deadline, you will automatically get the terms u asked for in the divorce.
They'll serve you in jail
Check with your attorney to see if the papers are served. Or check with the server that you used to serve the wife. When the divorce papers are served the server has to report it to court that the papers have been served so check the court records if your attorney is not available to answer your questions.
Ask her.
well don't get any divorce