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When your boyfriend goes out with his friends how can you stop getting really jealous and upset?

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2007-02-14 01:17:58
2007-02-14 01:17:58

Just chill out, because if you dont you are going to lose him. It's so hard at times not to let your jealous thoughts get the best of you. To get your mind off of him and his buddies, go have a night with the girls. If it's girl friends he goes with, then ask yourself if he has ever done anything before to make you not trust him. If he hasn't, then don't worry about it. You could see if you could go along every once and awhile if it bothers you that much. Trust is essential in any relationship. If he goes out with guy friends, then let him be, guys usually need their space. But if he goes out with both guys and girls, then ask him if you could come along once in awhile.

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