I would recommend talking to a school guidance counselor. They can offer some great recommendations of programs and services to help your teen. There are also websites online that can help. Military-school.org can provide some resources of different schools in the continental U.S.
Strugglingteens.com is an incredible recource.
You can find wilderness and military camps for troubled teens at www.troubledteenministries.com or www.troubledteencamp.net
There are several boarding schools and troubled teen programs in new york cities. There are even military schools for troubled teens. Its up to the parent to find the right school for their teen. I would check out My Troubled Teen. They are an organization that refers parents to boarding schools in their local area. Check out the New York section of their website here: http://www.mytroubledteen.com/boarding-schools/new-york.html
For a guide and listing of schools you can visit www.troubledteensguide.com. You can also check out wisconsin.schooltree.org.
www.teenhelponline.com lists a program in Boston.
Ridge Creek School one hour north of Atlanta is a theraputic school for troubled teens. More information can be found at www.ridgecreekschool.com.
Yes, there are high schools that are specifically for troubled teens in Rochester, NY. You can find them at http://www.addictionca.com/contact2.htm?state=New%20York&city=Rochester
There are a few approaches to schools for troubled teens. There are wilderness or outdoor programs, residential boarding schools or day programs. Here are two sites to explore: http://www.focusas.com/Programs.html, http://www.mytroubledteen.com/identify.php.
There is a place called Heartlight christian boarding schools and they help troubled teens in TX. The website where you can learn more is www.heartlightministries.org .
There are several schools for troubled teens in Oklahoma and Kansas that include family counseling. An online search can be used to find the contact information for the nearest schools and the can be contacted by phone or in person.
There are troubled teens in every city in the United States. There are also several online support groups where troubled teens can be found.
I do not know but if you find one please let me know my 12 year old is out of control. peace There is not a free military school but the following website has a listing of paid military schools. http://www.thefamilycompass.com/militaryschoolsinpennsylvaniapa.htm