You do not actually go to Ironforge for a Ram mount - instead, go outside the gate into Dun Morogh, and follow the road East. At a certain point, you will see a small road heading North into the mountains, to the Amberstill Ranch. This is where you can get Ram mounts and riding training.
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Ironforge is located in Dun Modr
Ironforge is the home city of the Gnomes and Dwarves
You have to reach Exalted with the faction, so to get a Ram you need to be Exalted with Ironforge, for example.
By your question I assume you mean the Gnomish Mechanostrider, a mount available at Steelgrill's Depot outside of Ironforge. If you wish to buy this mount you will need to be a Gnome (who can buy it anytime they hit 40+) or be Exalted with Gnomeregan. Exalted with Gnomeregan takes some time, depending on your current reputation. Most races start at Friendly, and you will need 6000 rep to become Honored, then 12000 rep to become revered and 21000 rep to become Exalted. The best way to reach this level is to do starting quests outside and in Ironforge, Loch Modan and quests in Uldaman in the Badlands. You can also hand in various cloths at the Great Forge in Ironforge and a lot of the seasonal quests and events reward reputation with all Alliance factions.
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You can not get blade training in ironforge, but you can get it in stormwind. take the tram if you don't have the FP. I am pretty sure you can get it at any level.
Old Ironforge was really big and a bit of a maze, so easy to get lost in. All shops and trainers were at that point at ground level, so old Ironforge was closed off to prevent people wandering through empty streets.
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The warlock trainer in Ironforge is in the Forlorn Cavern. To get to the Forlorn Cavern, you can head east from the Mystic Ward or west from the Hall of Explorers.
You can buy a desk that allows for an attachment for a monitor mount. Usually the mount attachments are sold separately.