Sims
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
Child support is paid to the wife so she can have money to raise the child. Maybe your husband made more money than his wife when they were still married. It's all in divorce papers. Talk to your husband about it.
Hopefully you had sex with your husband on, or about the time that you conceived. Tell your husband the happy news that he is about to be a father. He will raise the child as his own. And for goodness sake be more careful next time.
Your husband has the right to raise the baby if he is the father. By law a man needs to support that child till he or she turn legal age. The only question now is, if your husband knows about the child will he leave you and move in with his mistress and his baby. He is in a big mess right now if that baby is his..
Yeah If I Had A Husband :]
The biological father is the legal father. The husband is not the father unless he decides he wants to claim that title and wants to raise this child. Slim to none on that one. More likely you are going to be a single parent, so go after the bio dad for child support. He owes his child that.
Regardless of where you live, it is still expensive to raise a child.
you can raise money by sending a letter to a church near by and ask them if you can do a donation for your husband actually you can do this with strangers too.
What is this with all the women who have their clutches in somebody else's husband or father of somebody else's kid? First, you said he's your ex, as in EX-boyfriend, as in FORMER boyfriend, as in he ain't yo' boyfriend no mo'. So keep it that way. Forget about your EX, who knocked up some other chick and who now has a responsibility to that child and the mother of that child to raise that child. Go find some OTHER guy to grab a hold of. Your ex isn't the only fish in the sea, and certainly you're a good enough fisherman to catch another man -- one who doesn't have a kid with another woman. Sheesh!
it is cheaper to raise a child in a farming envirinment becausethey chip in with the work
It means it takes everyone to raise a child not just the individual.
The child needs his mother to raise him, not a daycare. You can tell your husband that. Farming a child out to someone else to raise is irresponsible and very cruel for the child. Be your child's mother and do what it takes to stay home to raise her/him or you will miss out on so much. Take your husband to a therapist for mediation if you still fight about this, someone professional needs to step in and talk some sense into him. Just ask your husband if he trusts someone else to raise your child more than you? That is what is happening if you work outside the home. Compromises could include: working a part time job when husband is home (doesn't leave time for the two of you so it isn't a very good compromise), OR taking an online job so you can work at home, OR promise to take a job once the child is in school full time - but you must be home when the child gets home because most children get into trouble between the time they get home from school and when the parent gets home. Just tell him that you would like your child to grow up with their mother rather than in a nursery, and that you feel it would benefit his/her upbringing at least until they go to school. Beware though a lot of stay at home mothers kind find the boredom terrible.