Where to find the right women?
When it is time, God will show you. Try becoming friends with girls first before you start dating and you will be able to tell.
Very few women who have had abortions have had to have therapy following. There is an idea used by anti-choice groups that women regret abortion and find it traumatic, but the fact is there is no evidence to support this idea and most women seeking abortion do so because they know it is the right thing for them and their family.