They have both been awarded two Oscars and have been nominated for five. They are both completely equal. :)
Jack Nicholson
Brad Pitt?
Anthony Hopkins, Susan Sarandon and Meryl Streep have each been nominated four times in the 90's. Emma Thompson was nominated four times for acting and once for screenplay.
So far (to my knowledge) blessthefall hasn't been nominated or given any major music awards, but they have been voted runner up as the most underrated band of the year by Alternative Press magazine.
Japan
As of 2013 ll cool j has been nominated nine times with the most recent being in 2005. He has won the award twice for "Mama said knock you out" and "Hey lover."
The most nominated actress is Meryl Streep, who won three Oscars in 19 nominations. The most nominated woman was designer Edith Head with 35 nominations and eight wins.
Guess Who's Coming to Dinner
It has happened many times, but the most impressive achievement was on February 29, 2004, when "The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King" won all 11 2003 categories for which it had been nominated.
Brian McNight has been nominated sixteen times without a win.
Judging from the responses here, the most popular boy costume was "girl"