Who is heteroxesual?

What do you do when you and your friend are gay men and you keep competing against him even though he is the more confident one when it comes to winning over other men?

This is quite common even with two women who are friends and vying for the same men, or two heterosexual men vying for the same women. It's all about "the chase" and it's always been a game of sorts and part of the excitement of landing someone you are interested in. Most friends male or female are in competition so to speak. I feel you are trying to say that your friend is very self-confident and finds men easily, while you seem to ride off his coat tails and don't seem to have the confidence to go after someone you are attracted too. As long as your friend doesn't mind and you don't have disagreements over it, then there is nothing wrong with this. However, it sounds like you want to strike out on your own and find men that are suitable to you. You have to sit down quietly and ask yourself what type of personality you are. There is nothing wrong with being shy and a little unsure of oneself when it comes to the dating department. I'm heteroxesual and I enjoy men who are a little on the shy side. I find shy men more sensative and caring, than the all-too confident man that can ride a little off his own ego. You have to realize who you are, and accept that. While your friend is probably out-going and confidendent, you may just be shy and feel ill at ease about yourself. When admitting you are gay, there are also times you may wonder if you really are, because it's a difficult road to travel when you are gay. I have male gay friends who are very dear to me, but not one of them hasn't pondered and wondered if they just made a mistake about being gay and are really straight. In many cases the man is gay and can't get use to the idea of it because, again, the road can be difficult, but things are getting better in society about these things. Perhaps you have too many questions to ask of yourself that interfere with your self-confidence, so until you sit alone, think about it all (even write your feelings down on paper and read it a week later) you will never truly know yourself and go forward with a clear mind. If you are sure you are gay, perhaps it's time to go out with a different friend to the clubs you frequent or to parties. Either that or strike out on your own and see what you are made of. You certainly don't want to ruin a good friendship with this friend of yours. It also wouldn't hurt you to communicate your feelings to your friend and perhaps they could shed some light on the way you feel. My simple suggestion (and it is simple) is just be who you are and don't try being someone else! There will be many that will find you attractive enough. Good luck Marcy Simply put, stop competing, because when you're competing you're never going to find a special guy and be happy..You guys are friends, just enjoy yourselves and stop this silly competition, that will eventually hurt both of you. You are an individual who deserve the best. Best only comes when you're honest and confident with yourself!

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