Who should be considered the winners and the losers?

Answer 1

A loser, or unfortunate human, may be genetically predisposed to be lax, or uninitiated into society. This is not a scientific fact, but Alcoholism and substance abuse is sometimes genetic. A loser doesn't apply him or herself to usual goals, or productive behavior. Loser is not a correct term for the mentally ill, or downtrodden. It is offensive and primarily pretentious. Loser, and Winner should stay on the gaming spectrums of life. Loser can be a word applied to oneself, as well. These individuals need good psychological help in overcoming the weight of such a term. Loser is used too loosely and provocatively.

ANSWER

society would have us believe that your awinner if you have the best job, the most in your wage packet, are the most beautiful or handsome, most well known and famous

of course none of that really makes anyone a winner unless they are truly happy with what ever it is, truly happy with their life and truly happy with themselves

i think as always what makes someone, you, a winner, is the persons own individual ideas of sucess, whether this is the best job, good looks, high pay, happiness, love self confidence etc

whatever your idea of winning and losing in your life is what you should live by,

if you are not happy and feel like a loser doing the job you do because YOU don't want to be doing it, or YOU feel its not high enough merit for you, then change it

don't change it because society and other people think you should or because they think you are a 'loser'

its your life and your ideals, we all have our own ideals and that's a part of our individual rights and lives

admire from afar things you may never do, for what ever reason you may not get to do it, we all have that, but it never makes us losers

just humans living this life as we can

technically your a winner if you can say honestly you are happy being who you are, although by that standard, not many of us are winners!

but that's the human condition, we are never happy and always want more

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