Honestly, it doesn't make a difference. Its the persons choice if they want to be the active or passive partner, or both.
What I can advice you is to see the doctor and the doctor will know what is that.Bleeding during sex doesn't sound normal things.But if you in periode that is normal.
I don't quite understand. To control when you have sex, you either need to be abusive or promiscuous which you should NOT be. To control how you have sex, you'll need to be aware of yourself and your partner.
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It's your choice! Please take some control of your life before you get runover by it.
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yes you should cause they can get out of control some times
You can't control this during sexual intercourse.
There are no "safe" days to have sex. Use birth control.
Some people like the feeling of being in control during sex. Some people just find it erotic or they have seen it on tape somewhere.
You could perform fellatio (oral sex). You decide if you want to spit or swallow.
You should be since they are both birth control pills.