Why does your boyfriend accuse you of sleeping around?

Answer 1

If you're not sleeping around, then more than likely the problem is with him and not you. He may have issues that cause him to be insecure and suspicious. He may not love himself and may not be able to fully accept your love. He may not have been properly loved as a child and can't understand what faithful and loyal love is. His parents may have cheated on each other and he's grown to believe that lovers cheat. He may be cheating himself and feels that if he can do it, you might do it, too...It could be lots of things. Try to sit down with him and have a heart to heart discussion about it. Hopefully communication will help him to break through some of his barriers and take steps to trusting you.

Answer 2

There are some basic reasons that men do this:

• He has low self esteem and subconsciously knows that this is what he deserves. His self esteem is not in your control. This has nothing to do with you.
• He is a cheater himself (currently or in the past) and doesn't know or and can't imagine that not everyone does this. His beliefs are his problem. This has nothing to do with you.
• He is a controlling personality. This is a standard technique for men to use if you show any sign of thinking or acting independently, even in the smallest matters. This will be progressive, leading to physical control if you stick around. This personality trait developed over his lifetime. This has nothing to do with you.

Most often some or all of these factors are involved. You can't change any of them.

Answer 3

Obviously he is not secure with himself, he feels inadequate for some reason. Or he's the one doing the cheating. Oftentimes the one doing the accusing is the one doing the cheating.

Answer 4

Hi, He probably is afraid of losing you and really loves you. If your boyfriend/Hubbie does this its a compliment!

Answer 5

because they just want you back