Why do friends hate you one second then need you the next?

Answer 1

ino this hasn't really got much to do with the question but it wont let me ask my own and my life is really hard for me at the moment and i really want some answers or advice.

-STORY...

...iwas talking with my friend Tia in a maths lesson and she menchaned our other friend elle, and Tia said that Elle loved attention from all the boys and she was getting on her nerves but i didnt say anything i just said mmm like agreed but i didnt mean anything by it.

iwanted to tell elle and ino a real friend would but iknew it would cause arguments and idont need it right now as i have just had someone in my family pass away and its very hard so i don't need anything else on top of it.

at elles house where iwent on monday she slagged Tia off and then told Tia i said things about her but i didnt, she told all of my friends i have been bitching and slagging them off because i think she was jelous of me or something.

these are the popular people in my year and i was one of them (not being big headed just honest here) ... they all belived her and ididnt no this i thought we were all fine, Elle and Tia are in all my lessons and now they are bestfriends and all the other girls hated me at this point. They all came up to me one lunch time and Elle and Tia told each other i had said the things they said and that's really harsh and ididnt have anyone by me, they all joined in and made me cry and cry and they imtimiidated me....ino real friends don't do that but idont understand because ididnt do anything and they all hate me, i admitted to Elle that i agreed but when i said that she thought isaid it:/ But Tia wouldn't admit it to her that she said it. ican feel they keep looking for me and i started crying because iwas standin up for myself but it was like 10 against 1 :( and ifelt really sad and intimidated...iwill admit i have bitched in the past but we all make mistakes and now all our petty little arguments from the past have been brought into it most where i was in the wrong but things we made up over.

I NO THIS IS MEGA LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT AS I BEG FOR SOME HELP OR ADVICE.

thankyouu if you have read this, i will try and reply to as many aas i can:)

pleasee help me and tell me what you would do, others have told me i should move on but its very hard considering they are thee populars and Elle and Tia are in my classes.

PLEASEE HELPP,, THANKYOU MUCHLYY <3 x