i think when someone cheats its their own issues that cause them to cheat - they need attention, their self worth is down, stress, etc.
You cannot force someone to do something they do not want to and if you were "horrible" to her as you put it then she may have not been cheating on you its seems she is just moving on with her life and does not want to be with you.
You allow him to think he is capable of cheating. Therefore, grow balls, cheat back, bet he wont enjoy that one.
It isn't really right but technically it isn't cheating
If He is at a place for a long time he says im going to the store it's 1;00 he comes back 9;00 that is when u know someone is cheating on u
When someone is categorized as a wife's lover, it means that the person loves someone's wife. This also mean that the wife loves him back and this is considered cheating.
Read that question back to yourself and then ask yourself why you would be with someone who you can see cheating on you and that you believe will lie to you...
If you feel it's too much to handle, get some professional help. It helps a lot of people to talk with someone who isn't intimately involved. Someone who will help you sort your emotions and get back on a healthy track.
Things change in your relationship
You need to leave him and find someone better for you and you son.
1. people won't like you and will start leaving you alone 2. you will hear people back stabbing you
Sometimes it is difficult to tell when someone is cheating on you. Sometimes friends may tell you or, signs of cheating may be breaking dates; working late often; not answer your calls; someone phoning and hanging up; your mate may be communicating with someone else on the Internet on a chat forum. If you can prove that the person is cheating it's heart-breaking because you trusted them and once trust is broken it is difficult for that person to earn it back again.
Cheating isn't unity because cheating actually breaks the bond with the person you went behind their back and you bond with the person you cheated with, so it's kind of unity but for only 2 of the 3 people invovled.