Why do couples get a divorce?

Answer 1

The biggest reason is financial. Too many young couples get into deep financial trouble all to quickly. Without a decent income, they acquire plastic debt (credit card charges) and soon become financially overwhelmed.

Another reason is lack of communication. Communication is key in any relationship - if that stops, for whatever reason, it needs to get back into the loop of daily living if the relationship is to thrive. Trust is another aspect that causes disruption in a marriage - if you don't totally and 100% trust your mate beyond any shadow of any doubt, then you don't belong together. As the two have become one, you now must work together in everything you do ... for if you don't, the relationship will soon end.

Another Answer

They Have a Single Bank Account

This is a difficult question to ask. Have you ever known a couple that has been divorced? Now ask them if they had a joint or separate bank account. What I have found is that a couple that gets divorced usually has separate bank accounts. One person in the relationship is being more selfish than the other. What happens is that with separate bank accounts it becomes a rivalry from the beginning. I bought this with my money. I paid for my trip to go with my friends; this is mine I paid for it.

Now if they have had a joint bank account when the marriage started, the conversations that they have will be. What are we going to save for? What are we going to buy? What are we going to achieve together? It is all about us.

Now if a couple wants to have a separate bank account this will work also because each one wants to put them self first and they would have had this conversation already. This is a very big topic for people to talk about before getting together and into a relationship.
People get divorced when they feel that the marriage is so badly damaged and that they are so incompatible with each other that to continue being married would only cause them more pain and discord.

Sometimes one partner is violent and abusive and the other must flee to safety (with the children if any) and use a mediator to obtain the divorce.

In many cases, one partner cheated and committed adultery (had sexual relations with another person outside the marriage), sometimes both partners will have had affairs. Sometimes they cannot forgive one another.

Sometimes people get married too quickly without realizing they're not really compatible.

Sometimes one partner finds a dream career far away from where they have their marital home, and the other knows he/she absolutely cannot move.

Sometimes it's after the loss of a child: by abduction or death by accident or disease, the process of intense grieving drives a couple apart rather than drawing them together. Some marriages don't survive tragedy.

Sometimes if one partner is very ill or is in an accident and becomes handicapped, the other feels overwhelmed and flees the marriage, compounding the trauma experienced by the other.

And sometimes one partner joins a fanatical political or religious group and the other cannot draw him/her away from it and must let go.

Sometimes the love is neglected and quietly dies.

In any case, divorce is a life-changing experience and both parties need time to heal, to be free to love again with someone new.

Answer 2

Here are some reasons for divorce?

1. Adultery

2. Family violence

3. Abandonment

4. Alcohol and drug abuse

5. Money conflicts

6. Irreconcilable differences

7. Refusal to get counseling or therapy

Answer 3

There are many reasons. Financial difficulties, adultery, physical or mental abuse, boredom, lonliness or just not right. The answer will change depending on who you ask. I think the answer is... If couples would study (Life Skills) prior to marriage, the divorce rate would probably be less.

Answer 4

when two people get married, they make a huge commitment to each other some times they have children sometimes they don't but everybody has a sole mate or a person that they were meant to be with but that doesn't mean that a husband and a wife were sole mates when they got married they thought that they were but as father time did his magic they found out things that they didn't know before about their spouse (husband or wife) and they figure out that the person who they thought was their sole mate isn't their actual sole mate so they get what is called a divorce when 2 married people become unmarried. when 2 people do this sometimes not both of the people want to get a divorce but ( if the mother wanted a divorce with her husband but the husband wanted to stay married they would still probably get a divorce) & some times they end up getting back together. it just so happens that some people get married then have what is called an affair when one of them goes out on a date with or loves someone else but their spouse doesn't know about it that would be one of the things that would cause a divorce butbut it isn't the child's thoughtsometimes they just weren't ready to have a child and it makes the child feel like it was their fault but it is not! but no mater what happens a good parent will always love their child

it will be OK if it seems like everything is destroyed

it will end up with what was meant to be

even if you don't like it

SB

Answer 5

A man might want to divorce his wife because of the pressure placed on him. Maybe he feels that he can no longer take on the high expectations that his wife puts on him, and that his only way out is a divorce. Another reason would be that men tend to rush into marriage. Most men wish to have their own family to take care of and rush into marriage. Rushed marriage, just like any rushed relationship, can often lead to breakups, or in this case, divorces.

Answer 6

They get a divorce because they dont like each other any more.

Answer 7

well they get a devours because they have problems or they don't think their right for each other

Answer 8

If two people are not happy being married, then they agree to go through the divorce proceedings.