Your abusive boyfriend is a control freak. He wants you all to himself. Blaming your roommate is his way of both projecting the blame for his abuse (and thus denying it) and of causing you to take sides and thus prying you away from her support.
Your roommate is probably right, by the way.
because.... its easier to blame some1 else for y it ended....
leave and/or abuse you and blame you.
This can only be determined by a DNA test to find out who is the father of your baby. Unless you are willing to do this (and your boyfriend or any lovers you have are willing to be tested) then don't blame your boyfriend.
You answered your own question - because you were drunk and made a bad judgment call but you cannot blame it on drinking alone.
The person doing the abusing is always responsible for that abuse. Abusive people always place the responsibility on someone else, and they always will if they can get away with it. If a situation becomes physical, it's always time to leave.
You ask yourself "is he really worth it?" If he loves you, he wouldn't blame every problem on you, he should take the blame too instead of laying it all down on you
Cheating is a choice made by the person who cheats, and not the fault of the person who may have been abusive. Abusive behavior is never an excuse for infidelity. Both partners should seek help to address any underlying issues in the relationship.
If the girl did not cheat or treat her boyfriend with disrespect then she should not be blaming herself. If she did something to destroy that relationship then yes, she should blame herself and take the responsibility that comes with it. When there is a break-up some women (of all ages) are insecure and may blame themselves for something they did not do.
Tell each other things that aren't true. For example: You tell the girlfriend when she is alone that you saw her boyfriend with another girl. Or you tell the boyfriend you saw her making out with another guy. Say stuff like that too each other, and then when they blame it on you, blame it on somebody else. Or even start a rumor, so that it finally gets to one of them.
ANSWER: If he gave you something in the past that hurt you, I will not blame you. But you must have a lot of evidence to know if he is cheating on you. If not, all you have is crazy thought.
Why is it your fault that she's racist? That don't make no sense. No not all!
Some couples usually talk about stuff like this, for some it's ok and for some it's not... For instance if your boyfriend tells you he rather you not to hang out with your ex, just ask him why. Like my boyfriend don't like my ex's and I don't blame him I did have bad relationships with them and he rather me not talk to them or anything so I respect him and not talk to them it saves us from arguing LOL...... But another thing is your boyfriend may not want you to hang with them because he may be afraid you will develop feelings for him again and I wouldn't blame him.... That's why my boyfriend don't talk to his ex's either...