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Your question brought back memories, my friend. Families and the inner relationships they create are just difficult sometimes. You and your siblings didn't choose to be in each others' lives; it just happened. Arguments between brothers and sisters are very, very common. You all share the same history, the same name (most likely), the same parents (or one parent), and you may not be anything like each other.

If you truly want to find out if your brothers and sisters "hate" you (which I doubt; chances are they're upset about something and it feels like hate), you could ask them why they're acting in a way that hurts you. You could have a meeting where you have a chance to tell them how their behavior is affecting you. You could hear what they have to say and, if it's a reasonable and healthy discussion, talk about ways to improve the relationships.

Sometimes brother-sister relationships are so distant, so strained, that nothing can really repair them. You may have to live with it until you are independent and then you can choose whether to see your brothers and sisters or not. Focus on other friends outside of the family. Stay busy and have lots of activities where you spend time. Be around people you like and who like you. Consider that your brothers and sisters are losing out on knowing what a terrific person you are and leave it at that. But if they warm up to you and want to have a good relationship, be ready to let them into your life.

Okay so this may sound like a ridiculous answer to a very challenging question but I highly suggest you read the novel The Lost Daughter by Daralyse Lyons. Sometimes, what seems like hate isn't. The author writes "the line between love and hate isn't thin, it's pain." And I agree. Read it. Have your sisters and your mother read it. You'll all be back to loving each other in no time

http://www.Amazon.com/Lost-Daughter-D…

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