In the Odyssey, Antinous' father is Eupeithes.
Antinous
Altinous was not in the Odyssey. Perhaps you are thinking of Alcinous, or Antinous.
Antinous bullies Telemachus in The Odyssey.
Antinous and Eurymachus
The two main head suitors in the Odyssey are Antinous and Eurymachus. They are the most aggressive and prominent among the suitors competing for Penelope's hand in marriage.
Antinous drowned in the Nilus. (D.C. 69.11) It is not known whether his death was the result of accident, suicide, murder, or religious sacrifice. If speaking of Antinous in The Odyssey, he was shot by an arrow through the throat by Odysseus with his mighty bow, while Antinous was about to eat an apple. -In The Odyssey it clearly says Antinous dies while taking a drink of wine. "With that he pointed the bitter arrow at Antinous. Now he was about raising to his lips a fair two-eared chalice of gold, and behold, he was handling it to drink of the wine"
In the Odyssey Penelope has two main suitors, Antinous and Eurymachus. Antinous is more violent and the favourite to win her hand, whereas Eurymachus is more oily, I'd say Antinous was the more forceful of the two.
Antinous is wooing his wife Penelope. Also, Antinous is rude, obnoxious, and treats Odysseus poorly. When Odysseus is a beggar asking for food, Antinous not only gives him no food, but also throws a foot stool at him. Antinous also earlier previously encouraged Irus the beggar to fight Odysseus.
In Homer's "The Odyssey," the suitor who acts as a bully towards Odysseus when he returns home is Antinous. Antinous is one of the leading suitors competing for Penelope's hand in marriage while Odysseus is away. He is depicted as arrogant, disrespectful, and cruel towards Odysseus and Telemachus.
The vocal suitor of Penelope was Antinous. He was one of the leading suitors vying for Penelope's hand in marriage in Homer's epic poem, the Odyssey.
In Homer's Odyssey, there is no evidence to suggest that Antinous loves Penelope. Antinous and the other suitors are primarily interested in marrying Penelope to gain control of Odysseus's wealth and kingdom. Their intentions are selfish and driven by greed rather than genuine love.