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Because she has been waiting for the guy to but he hasn't, so she decides it's time for her to.

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the girl feels like she has to, because he expects her to. In most cases, she feels obligated to make the first move.

Another reply: Why SHOULDN'T she? Any difference between boys and girls, for example, as in this case, ideas about how they should behave, makes me suspect gender prejudices, which are unfounded in most cases.

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I work with adolescents in a church setting, and find that the girls are getting used to the idea of being on a par with boys in asking someone out.

The other fact that I found out recently at a high school reunion was that the girls were dying to go out, but the guys were too shy to ask them.

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