because that's the way they keep you hooked. they thrive on that drama and bull. happy doesn't last long because they always do something to break it. then you are spending all your time working to get it back and please them more. low level abuse type profane language words are the ideal catalyst for abusers,they hurt way deep, yea, that's the way they keep you engaged.try to make an unemotional civil conversation or throw them off with humor or misdirection, you cant avoid their bad karma no matter how hard you try.yes,'unleash grievances a dangerous game,derogatory dialogs, name calling, bringing up past issues only adds fuel to the fire.what happens?you wont like the result i assure you.a relationship wont work,why?because they don't want it to work.co-exist is beyond their comprehension.there must be respect for a sincere friendship to exist.if someone you're with truly works at breaking it when you're happy my advice is START STEPPIN.
AnswerSome abusers are envious of happy people and hate them for being content. But most abusers use this technique (of spoiling other people's happiness) to fend off imminent and threatening intimacy and emotional bonding. AnswerMuch of the abusers power comes from the conscious manipulation and control of the people around them. They also do 'what they know'. they could have seen their abusive parents act in this way so they do it. Abuse is a negative response to life. It is not comfortable to have happy and joyous people around-then who is in control! This is why Christmas and holidays are so difficult around abusive people. I had an aunt who used to refer to holidays jokingly as the devil's workshop.Feelings!Maybe the things the other person does to make him/her happy.
No, you don't. You wanna make that person happy but your not. There are other things that can make the person happy, don't make your life miserable cause of someone. Try other things to make the person happy. If you care for the person as much as they care for you, they should be understanding and caring of your feelings.
You will never become the "smartest " person on earth, but have to be happy with who you are and the things you can accomplish.
A person expressing a grievance is more likely to seem sad or frustrated rather than happy. Grievances typically involve feelings of distress, dissatisfaction, or anger, which usually manifest as negative emotions rather than positive ones.
Just Try The Things That The Person Will Be Happy Or Do Something For Them. And Maybe, They'll Have Feelings For You Too.
Im happy person
Such a person is called a narcissist.
I hope you have a really nice day! Seeing as I am quite a nice person, and, as a nice person, enjoy doing nice things, I solemnly and happily wish you a happy day, in which many happy things will happen to you, in a non weird way. Oh, and the answer is by calling his phone.
HAPPY
Rihanna is a happy person.
When you care for someone it is important to show that person. There are some common ways to show it, for example saying kind words, to things to make them happy, bringing them gifts of things that they like and spend time with the person.
Try not to think too much and keep in mind that you are a happy person let every bad things go aside and just think happy. try smiling through it even when you feel really down and always accept praise.