You appear to be asking a question about your personal life that you would be much better qualified to answer than we are, however, if I were to venture a guess, it would be that people described as "recovering" do not always recover. Of course, I don't even know what your husband is recovering from.
A husband
I would be firm and say "I HAVE MADE UP MY MIND AND I WANT A DIVORCE". Remember less said is best.
Dont take him back ever, if he was balsy enough to leave you in the first place he will do it again and again and again and you will never be able to trust him regardless of how bad you want him back.
I dont know why you would want your husband to stop loving you but i think you should bite his ..........off
uuhh.. yeah unless you cant stand chinese food and dont want any.
Tell her husband to watch his back.
You don't want him back.
You hurt them too badly; they dont want you anymore
Get counseling. Failing that, get a lawyer.
We really hope so, if that's what you want.
why dont you tell him why you had the affair and then he might back off abit
You want your husband to know the truth about whether or not you are a virgin. If you lie to him about it, it is likely that he will find out eventually, anyways. In which case, the consequences will be much worse, because you betrayed his trust.