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Because moments of abuse are extremely traumatic, which can be very detrimental to your mental health. The memory of it would be nearly impossible to get over for your brain recognizes it as a turning point from your normal life. From then on, everything you do or see will be looked at in a different way by yourself. Just try to find the good things in your life, that makes a life worth living. Good Luck.
What else can I help you with?
Can an abuser change for a healthy partner?
yes, if they want to change then they will have to work as hard as they can. Change is hard but still good if you are changing to the good side.
Did michale Jackson have a hard child hood?
I'm not a 100% sure but he probley did since his farther was an abuser
What can you do to get over an ex abuser that you work with when you see him everyday?
Get counseling. And think about a new job.
What do you say when you have to testify against your abuser?
The prosecutor should go over your testimony so you can practice.
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
Why do people feel love for their abusers?
I am not sure if it's love that they are feeling. Abuse is a cycle that is really hard to break. Love is something healty and kind and there is no love in an abusive relationship. I believe that both parties can care about each other. For the abuser they are in love with the control they have over their partner. As far as the partner is concerned, they have a very low self esteem and feel like the abuser is their whole life and that they cannot make it without them. Both people are co-dependent and it is hard for either of them to end the cycle they have become so used to.
When was Love Your Abuser created?
Love Your Abuser was created on 2007-01-30.
Why would one seek out her abuser over and over again even though he has told her to leave him alone?
Please read "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie
Is it normal to be upset that an ex abuser is in a new relationship when you feel that he should suffer the same lonliness that you are?
yup. but you should get over him.
How What if your ex husband abuser get remarried and look not abuser to new wife?
Give him time. He will.
What is the first thing an abuser will do?
The first thing an abuser often does is establish control over their victim, which can manifest through manipulation, intimidation, or emotional abuse. This may involve isolating the victim from friends and family, undermining their self-esteem, or using threats to instill fear. By creating a power imbalance, the abuser seeks to dominate the relationship and make the victim more dependent on them.
How do you reason with an abuser?
Reasoning with an abuser is not something the abused person should probably try. Most abusers are very good at manipulation. If you try to discuss it with them, you may be disappointed and become more hurt and angry. If they are an abuser, they already know it, but do not expect them to admit it.Rather then reason with them, you should talk to someone that you trust about it. It might be hard to admit to someone that you are being abused, but it is better to face your fear by reaching out to someone then continuing to be abused.
