Most narcissists are insecure and place enormous internal emphasis on how others perceive them. They project what they think about themselves on you. They want to cause you to leave them because the truth is they use you for sometime and then get bored and would rather put the blame on you for leaving them.
The word for someone who thinks they are perfect is "narcissist."
Narcissist
Egotistical Narcissist
The term for someone who thinks they are superior to everybody is "narcissist" or "egotist."
This might be a characteristic of a person who is a narcissist.
someone who thinks he is so handsome that becomes in love with himself.
Yes. A narcissist thinks only for themselves and if an oppurtunity arises where they can benefit more then helping you, they gladly will.
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Why would some one "wait." 10 years? it doesn't matter who you are waiting for if the person loved you they would demonstrate that love right away. So, if some one decides to put their life on hold for a narcissist i suggest to go get professional help as to why you would do such a thing. Plus, I think you would give as your life will change. A Narcissist thinks you have nothing better to do!!
Why would you WANT to? If someone is that self-centered and you want to put up with it it's either a reflection of who you are or the person did a good snow-job on you at the beginning. A true narcissist? If so you can't. Narcissists like to ruin peoples lives. If you live with a true narcissist, one of you will die. If they're just someone who thinks they're usually right until they're porven wrong but is also someone who you can talk deeply to and know you can trust most of the time, it could work. If they're a true narcissist and always thinks that they're right and the whole world should listen to them and be exactly like them, then forget about them.
Go to a therapist and get a second opinion. The wife shouldn't diagnose and if you truly have this problem, then a therapist can help. If not, then a therapist can help her. Go together for at least one visit.
The one one thing that makes them go crazy is to be ignored.