Absolutely not! If he sees that she'll tolerate it, then he'll keep abusing her as a means of keeping her in line. The best thing she can do is distance herself and find someone else. You sound young, so let me tell ya, he's not worth it! No man is worth it! No, he will not. Doing what an abuser wants only prolongs the abuse in the same way that giving drugs to an addict only prolongs the addiction. Abuse is not the opposite of nice. Neither is it caused by not getting what he wants. Abuse is about control and domination coupled with the pleasure derived by them. The victim of abuse must realize that there is no relationship. There is only the illusion of a relationship. She is not his girl-"friend". For the abuser, the abused is not really a "person" in the normal sense of the word. As long as this false-relationship continues, there will be no solution. The only way out of the abuse is terminate contact and seek protection. Pastor Lopez
Possibly there is something in his body language or manner that discourages the new girlfriend from opposing his views and so everything goes his way. However, many times young girls will act this way with new guys since they are in love. If I was the ex-abuser, I would definitely say this is a good question to explore with the new girlfriend.
Say no
everything about you is perfect like a dream girlfriend he always wanted.
She wants to be ur girlfriend, and wants a closer relationship. She wants to be closer and wants things.
because her mom wants to move but her dad does not.
From my experience yet. This is apart of the guilt process. The abuser wants to make their victims feel that it is his/her fault that the abuse accured and if he/she hadn't done something or had done something better it would have never accured. The abuser will never take accountability for the poor choices he or she made.
1 . Mabye he likes you. 2 . He wants you to notice him or 3. He just tells you everything...
TO be a what?
when they looks at you alot. and be nicer then other then you. and he wants to look cool. always wants to get closer to you
The first - crucial - steps are to acknowledge that he is abuser and seek help. Abusers are usually in denial: If the abuser is also a narcissist (suffers from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder - NPD), this may be of some assistance:
Yes Mitchel Musso wants a girlfriend but he wants the right girl though
He has a girlfriend because he wants to date her.