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Absolutely not! If he sees that she'll tolerate it, then he'll keep abusing her as a means of keeping her in line. The best thing she can do is distance herself and find someone else. You sound young, so let me tell ya, he's not worth it! No man is worth it! No, he will not. Doing what an abuser wants only prolongs the abuse in the same way that giving drugs to an addict only prolongs the addiction. Abuse is not the opposite of nice. Neither is it caused by not getting what he wants. Abuse is about control and domination coupled with the pleasure derived by them. The victim of abuse must realize that there is no relationship. There is only the illusion of a relationship. She is not his girl-"friend". For the abuser, the abused is not really a "person" in the normal sense of the word. As long as this false-relationship continues, there will be no solution. The only way out of the abuse is terminate contact and seek protection. Pastor Lopez

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