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If you gave your spouse another chance after his affair why can't he help you rebuild the relationship?
If he's not helping to work on your marriage , he is just waiting for the storm to blow over and you won't bother him any more. Tell him to get with the program [ marriage counseling ] or you'll go on with out him.
How can you regain your spouse?
It depends on what you did to lose their trust. Try marriage counseling with a certified psychiatrist and work on it there. A marriage without trust is in trouble.
What are the odds of saving your marriage?
If the spouse does not constantly cheat and made one mistake by having an affair then talking it out in a calm manner and facing how you both can improve upon the marriage may save the marriage or, you both could go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with every day life's stresses. If the spouse is constantly cheating; may be on drugs or abuses alcohol or is constantly verbally or physically harmful to their spouse it is best to move on. There is a good rate of successful marriages if one spouse has only had one affair if the couple decide to make it work. 'To err is human.'
Is affair a wake up call or a death knell for a marriage?
Often it is a wake up call that something is missing your marriage either by your spouse; yourself or both of you. Marriage takes hard work and some marriages end up with one; both spouses having affairs and if they truly love each other marriage counseling does help and since both of you took your marriage vows you need to realize people are just human and if this is a first affair then the marriage is still worth saving. However, if the spouse continues to have affairs then it is the death of the marriage.
How can you regain your spouse's trust?
It depends on what you did to lose their trust. Try marriage counseling with a certified psychiatrist and work on it there. A marriage without trust is in trouble.
Why does my spouse think that having an affair is normal?
Your spouse is hoping that you are not worldly enough to realize that it is not normal to have an affair and they are trying to get away with cheating on you. Tell them if they persist and do not work on your marriage with you (seek marriage counseling) then you will leave and they can have all the affairs they like. You are in control of your life and destiny!
How can you make your spouse understand how much his affair has hurt and negatively affected you?
You probably won't. The hurt, pain and anger that you are feeling is hard for your spouse to grasp. It would be best for both of you to get counseling to work so that you both can work through the issues.
I had a cyber affair. Now its over my husband stopped calling me. Why?
Having an affair can be emotionally devastating for one's spouse. So, it is not surprising that a person's spouse would ignore them after they learned of an affair. To make a marriage work following infidelity, both parties need to be willing to work it out, and they should likely attend couple's therapy.
Do you wonder if there is hope for your marriage after your spouse cheated on you?
If the spouse is not a multiple cheater and has only cheated once then 'to err is human' and if the two of you need to sit down and communicate what the other is feeling without yelling and screaming or placing blame on each other. Seeking marriage counseling is a good idea and it is important that the spouse knows that the counselor is not there to place blame on one person, but to give the couple tools to work through their marriage problems. Many marriages have survived one affair, but not multiple affairs.
What are the signs if your spouse really wanted to work on your marriage after getting caught cheating?
There is only one sign and that is if he were to agree to go to marriage counseling and keep each appointment with you. It is important that he realizes a marriage counselor is not there to place blame on either spouse, but to give them tools in order for them to communicate better and resolve any problems they have in their marriage.
Is divorce the only answer if your marriage don't work anymore after spouse affair?
No, divorce is just a way out sometimes. It depends on how much remorse the cheating spouse has, and if both are willing to work towards making it work. If the spouse who didn't cheat hangs it over the others head, then it definitely wont work. If the spouse forgives the other, and looks to a brighter future then nothing is impossible!
Why You and Your Spouse Might Need Marriage Counseling?
There are many reasons why a couple might need marriage counseling. If you are unsure as to whether or not you and your spouse could benefit from marital counseling, it’s important to sit down and be honest with yourselves and take a relationship inventory. Asking yourselves a few questions can help you and your spouse determine if couples’ counseling would be right for you and your marriage. Can you and your spouse communicate honestly with one another? This is usually a deal-breaker in a relationship. When two people feel that they can’t talk to one another and be completely honest, it will wreak havoc on their marriage. If you or your spouse feel that you can’t communicate, then marriage counseling is probably a good idea for you. A good marital counselor will help teach you both how to communicate with each other in a safe and respectful manner. Do you and your partner disagree about everything? Many times, when a couple can’t agree on anything, they’re not really disagreeing with each other about the topic, so much as the details of the topic. This is especially true for couples making plans for the future - you and your spouse may have the same goals, but different ideas on how to get there. Couples’ counseling will most likely help you and your spouse to learn to communicate your disagreements and dislikes effectively and teach you both how and when to compromise. Marriage counseling can also be helpful for couples who are struggling with infidelity, financial problems and even problems with their children. Sometimes just having a third party that can help referee a disagreement can make the difference on whether or not communication between a couple is effective or not. A marriage counselor will not take sides against either partner, he or she will remain neutral and offer up ways for you and your spouse to communicate effectively. You aren’t sure whether or not you and your spouse are good candidates for couples’ counseling? Consider one more thing - If you and your partner are both still willing to work on your marriage and work together to solve any issues, then marital counseling will likely help you salvage your marriage and make the journey a bit smoother.
