My best guess, based on experience, is that the N will always attempt to keep a source close by. The N will, at least, attempt to ensure they can call upon the source when needed. By this I mean the N will keep some type of contact with a good source. They will drop messages or contact a source for a small insignificant reason, just to know that they still can have contact, if needed. The N will NEVER let a good source free of their own accord. They will keep whatever small crumb of attention. This is what they do. They know that they can keep a source dangling for an infinate amount of time. The N will never be the one to initiate the true and total break up of the relationship. They (the N) will always keep any type of communication possible, whether that be a call once every six weeks or once every 12 weeks. The N just needs to know that the source will continue to speak with, care about, fight with, whatever.....even negative contact is okay with the N, so long as it is CONTACT! The only way to free yourself from an N is to NEVER-EVER-EVER have any type of contact again. I mean NEVER. As I stated above, even negative contact is contact, and the N twists it in their mind that at least the source still acknowledges that there was some type of communication and that MUST mean that the source at least has some type of feeling for the N, otherwise the source will have totally ignored any attempt of contact.
Narcissists need to always be complimented; dramatize their lifestyle or indeavors;adored; admired, etc., and it's 'running out of supplies' for the narcissist when they want to come back to the partner they were with. This means the narcissist is not being supplied to boost his or her's ego and they know they can more than likely get the boost (like a drug addiction) from their former partner.
He will only be back if you let him back. You have to be strong and remember its not your fault he treats you badly.
1.21 gigawatts. Source: Doctor Emmitt Brown, Back to the Future
You should always back up your computer files just in case your computer decides to go kaput. When you back up your files on another drive, you can always have access to them.
YOU HAVE 2 GET HER JELOUS............. ALWAYS #1 QUEEN...
Narcissists accept no blame FOR ANYTHING. And they thrive on getting you to feel pity. Its the way they truly get control over you. Lastly, if its your fault, they can still come back later and beg you for another chance. DON'T DO IT!
Anyone could do either - in the view of many narcissists everyone else is there to flatter and supply them with what they need emotionally. You can go from being overvalued if you are doing this 'pumping up' to being apparently hated and put down viciously (often behind your back too) as soon as you don't do what they feel you should be doing.
It is the nature of the narcissist never to take responsibility for their own negative actions. Someone else is ALWAYS to blame. And they cheat because they have a bottomless need for admiration to back up their own good opinion of themselves.
Tell him to get raped by a giraffe. This always works.
i read from another source that he's coming out on may 2008! I CANT WAIT! It was announced that he will be back 29th of May =D
Back And Forth E There's Always Gonna Be Another Mountain B Your Always Gonna Wanna Make IT Move A B
Voice your feelings and then give one another time and space - its not always easy to go back.