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Would a girl be considered a slut if she lost her virginity when she was 14 and is now almost 16 and has slept with 8 guys in 2 years?

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09/13/2011

I personally don't like the term "slut" because human beings are extremely complicated and each individual has their issues. She could be looking for love in all the wrong places. Some young women haven't had a loving relationship with either their mother, father or both. Sometimes young women are looking to replace that gap of lack of love by sleeping with different men.

There are some women that are very sexual and seem to need sex a great deal of the time, but, that's OK with a partner you are either going with or your husband. Sleeping around with different guys isn't a good idea with the high stats of sexually transmitted diseases.

If you were smart enough to ask this question then you are smart enough to know you should slow down, think about your own needs a little more (nix the sex while doing this) and find out what you are really searching for. Are you a pleaser? Do you feel that the only way you can feel love is by having sex with guys? Do you believe that if you give sex so openly that you'll be more popular? The answer of yes to any of these questions is a problem. You need to break-down why you feel this way. Love just isn't about sex, but having a faithful relationship with a boyfriend or husband. It's about communication, honesty, sharing your hopes and dreams and being active together and then sex comes into the picture.

I don't think you're a slut at all, but I do think you need to sit up and fly right! Start questioning yourself as to why you are this way and if you are as smart as I think you are then you'll come up with the answer.

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well. umm. i am a girl and i wouldn't really consider you a slut, but i don't know about guys! I lost it when i was 13, it really just depends on your maturity at a young age and if you really like the person

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Oh wait, i misread ur question. 8 people in about one year? yeah. slut. but. I don't know it could be worse right? i have a best friend who sleeps w/ 3 or 4 diff. guys in a week. and is 15 and has been with 30 + people