You were a virgin til 21ever since then anyone who says the word makes you nervous an paranoidkeep thinking you are a virgin in your headbut had quite alot of sex really since i was 21.?

Answer 1

You're not a virgin if you have had sex with many guys even if you did not love them. "A Virgin" means virginal which you obviously are not by your own admission you have slept with many men. So your virginity goes with the very first man you slept with