You don't have this choice. If you are a gay man, you are a gay man. If you are a gay woman, you are lesbian.
If they did then they wouldn't be gay or lesbian now would they?
Maybe lesbian, but not gay no.
Gay is usually for guys and lesbian is girls well that's how it seems. You can still call a girl gay but calling a guy lesbian would be weird.
A person who is not a gay and lesbian :) She is also awesomethe person who put her as a gay lesbian is a gay lesbian
The words "gay" and "lesbian" mean the same thing.
In some cases yes, especially if the "gay" bar refers to a lesbian bar. I think not because it is a gay bar. It would be a lesbian bar for girls.
That would be called kissing. It is not either lesbian or gay, but you could be lesbian or gay if you enjoy kissing people who are the same sex as you are.
A lesbian partner would be the significant other of a lesbian. A lesbian couple can be referred to as parters rather than girlfriends or wives.
No, you aren't gay if you like a lesbian. She is still a female.
being bisexual is where you was either gay/lesbian or straight first but then you changed to straight or gay/lesbian eg. you was gay but then you fell in love with a woman.
Well technically it would be lesbian, but still the answer is no.
A gay or lesbian family would be the same as a traditional family except instead of the parents being a woman and a man, the parents would be a man and a man or a woman and woman.