You are dating a guy for 3 months and he suddenly stopped calling?

Answer 1

This happened to me and it took me almost a year to get over it. This sounds silly, but after I read Twilight, I COMPLETELY got over it. Haha, okay...obviously that is not the solution. This guy acted like I was the best thing that ever happened to him, seemed like a great guy, we never got in one argument, and then BOOM...he quit calling me after 3 or so months, ignored me for three days, and then dumped over the telephone in 2 minutes. Anyways, I tortured myself FOR MONTHS trying to figure out what I had done wrong, tried to retrace what happened. He began dating almost immediately, had another relationship where he was madly in love with the girl. I still don't have an answer for why, and I have finally let go. After coming in contact with him several times many months later, it was a BAD experience trying to find out why it happened and what happened and he kept contacting me wanting to be my friend and OBVIOUSLY nothing more and then acting aloof towards me. If he has stopped calling you, then you should move on for your sake. MOST times if he comes crawling back with a reason, it is ingenuine, too little, too late, or lame. These things happen a lot, so you may never know why, but most likely it doesn't have to do with you and if it does, so what...it happens to all of us and you shouldn't feel bad. :) Don't worry about getting closure...cause you may not get what you are looking for.