Always be pleasant to him and be mysterious. Talk about anything, but your private life. Start dating other guys and the word will get out. Make this guy fight to get you back. If you make yourself too available to him he'll end up taking advantage of you or simply disappearing out of your life. Learn to be independent and be in control of your own life.
Guys tend to have a hard time verbally expressing their feelings and tend to try and show you in other ways that they think they know how. Don't pressure or bother him about actually saying the words as this will only push him away - seeming overbearing or needy would be scarey and guys just don't like it. When/If he becomes ready he will tell you but until then be happy with what you have and if things are to be they will fall into place.
If you are in a new relationship, don't stress about things like exes. This will definitely start a downward spiral. Instead, trust that she is just as in to you as you are her. If you are that concerned, express your feelings without being "overbearing."
love, happiness, Feelings
Not quite sure what you mean by "go wrong again" but if you are looking to write her a letter that contains feelings try not to be overbearing or too needy. Try taking things slow instead of dumping a load of feelings on her at once - get to know her and go from there.
Tell him that your feelings have changed about him, and that you rushed into things without thinking
Guys don't really know how to verbally express their feelings and would prefer to avoid any confrontations of any kind during a relationship. They need time to think about things - give him space and time he will come to you when he is ready, don't be pushy or overbearing.
you could ask her to go to the movies and ask her to tell her about her self and then you say things about you.
The phrase "Paper Seeming Boy" is a metaphor because it directly compares a boy to paper without using "like" or "as" to make the comparison. It implies that the boy is fragile, thin, or insubstantial.
Try not to be overbearing with your feelings and guys tend to shy away from that and you could scare him away. Just be yourself and let him know every so often and I bet he knows.
It is hard for guys to express their feelings and sometimes do it in other ways than actually saying anything. Don't push or pressure him into physically saying things as this will only push him away and embarass him. Let things be and when and if he becomes ready he will tell you on his own. Also, don't be overbearing with your feelings either as this too can be overwhelming for guys and scare them away. Just enjoy your relationship and let things work themselves out. He is there with you because he wants to be with you let things evolve on their own - be patient and things will adjust.
People may have a habit of saying things without thinking. This causes things to be questioned as to why or how they could say it as this may hurt feelings or anger people.
Such a person is called a narcissist.