You asked a guy out and he said yes but is now not replying to me to set a day its been 2 days I have not heard form him Is he interested or playing hard to get?

Answer 1

I don't think he's that interested.

men are not like women. In general, they do not sit at home daydreaming about scenarios that will make women jealous, or conjuring up ideas that will make a particular girl more interested in them.

What you need to consider is that if a man acts like he's not that interested - it generally means that he's not. If he was, he wouldn't run the risk of offending you by failing to reply promptly.

We ladies spend far too much time trying to analyse men and search hard for the meanings behind their actions. Just try and take his actions on face value and you will save yourself a lot of time and dissapointment.

Another factor to consider is that it is risky to ask a man out( not exactly a femmininst point of view but an honest one!).

Most men like to feel that they have hunted for their prey - they don't like to feel like the prey themselves. Initiate asking a guy out and you are in danger of making him feel that he is less of a man.

Guys like to do things when they are ready and at their own pace - they don't like to feel that they are being pushed or prompted into anything.

You have to be patient and wait for a man to ask you out because - when he does - it will dimminish any doubts you have as to whether or not he likes you.