It's best that you speak to a lawyer who can best tell you your rights.
You may be able to get some form of alimony for a number of years, plus qualify for a portion of his pension among other things due to the length of the marriage.
She will have to abide by the divorce decree and custody orders of the state in which the divorce was granted. She can move back, but the ex-husband (and the children's father) may dispute being separated from his children and take you to court to prevent it.
yes
Yes, he can.
You divorce and get custody over your kids or just get full custody!
if your husband put his family ahead of you and your children then you should divorce him because that means that he really dont care about you or your children
There is no prohibition against divorce in the Torah. Although the husband has to initiate divorce according to Jewish law, in cases of abuse, the husband can be forced to do so. The exception regarding no prohibition against divorce is that a husband can't divorce his wife due to illness or inability to have children.
no
The rights your ex-husband will have once you divorce will all depend on what the judge rules. He could have joint custody or split custody.
If they have been there six months.
Sue him or take him to court
Yes, if your husband feels (or can prove) he has grounds for a divorce he can do so at any time - length-of-marriage, or not, number of children, or not. You probably should contact an attorney to learn your legal rights.
Custody rulings have nothing to do with who files for the divorce first.