You really like a girl but you dont know if she likes you but your too nervous to ask her on a date what should you do also you find it hard to pick subjects to talk about so some help with that would?

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Ok well first of all, I myself am a girl so coming from me, I hope this helps. It should :) Okay well telling them straight out would not be a good idea unless you're really not scared of getting embarrassed or anything like that. I know that I would be totally freaked out if a guy I didnt even who he WA came up to me and told me he liked me! First things first, find out more about her. You might actually discover that you two have nothing in common, which could greatly affect your relationship. If you are satisfied with what you find out, then go on to the next step. Start smalk talk with her. Don't just go up to her and gush about your life, just smile to her and say "hi" when you see her and that kind of stuff. Show her you're happy to see her but not too happy, you don't want to overdo it. Let this go on until you guys are comfortable talking to one another like between classes and etc... I'd say about a few weeks or so. It could be less it could be more it depends on the person. Then, maybe you two will start to hang out or something. A girl wants a guy who is funny, so what you really want to work on is making her laughs. Read joke books or something. Whatever you do, do not make fun of her! Gently teasing her is alright, but once a girl is hurt by a guy, odds are she wont forgive him for a long time. Try to look nice in front of her and don't make a fool of yourself. Just be yourself and if it is you she is interested in, then let it be you that she gets to know. Don't try to be someone you're not.

Hope that helped, <3