The answer to this depends on whether you or your spouse now live in North Carolina long enough to establish residency. This typically takes between 6 months and a year and if that is the case then you are able to file in either state. If not, then you must file for divorce in NJ
Provided you have establish residency in NY, you can file there. After making a "valid" attempt to locate and serve him, you can file a request with the court to use a newspaper announce in NC. This will need to be placed in each of the major newspapers in NC.
No, you do not have to get divorced in the same state that you were married in.
Yes you can you are still living in the U.S.A.
You can apply for divorce in any jurisdiction you wish, as long as you meet the requirements for that state or country.
You file for divorce in the state you have legal residency in.
You usually file for divorce in the jurisdiction in which you live, regardless of where you were married.
Kansas
You file for divorce in the state in which you reside.
Pennsylvania
Yes - you may divorce anyone in any state at anytime.
The state where you now reside.
If New York is where you reside- yes.
No. You cannot file for divorce in GA if you are not a resident of the state. You would file in FL (despite the fact that you not married in FL).
Yes, you apply for divorce in the jurisdiction you currently live in.
You would file in Maryland. You always file in the state and county that you currently reside in.
You file in the state in which you are a resident, even if that was not the state where you married.