Your best friend stole your boyfriend what should you do?

Answer 1

you slap her round the face and punch the guy in the balls and hopefully they will learn there lesson. I hope you listen to my amazing advice!

From agony aunt x

person #2

That advice is horrible!!!!!!!!!!!!! say i hope u r very happy with and walk away...then she will think u dont care and might brake up with him because she wont be doing anything, like making u miserable...... so dont kick or punch anyone..i tried it.....plz dont

ANSWER:

It will sounds awful but if this happens to you, that woman is not really your best friend. A best friend is type of a friend that will be there when you need someone to talk to, or just hang out with, not steal your boyfriend. But its not really your best friends fault, your boyfriend probably approach her. He can't tell you that it just happen because of some reason, he chooses to sleep with her and you didn't put a gun in his head. And for this woman to be your close friend and all, being envious is very wrong, and for that she betrayed your friendship and trust.

Answer 2

Sorry to say, but there is no such thing as "stealing a boyfriend". Unless she kidnapped him, he willingly went to her just as she willingly involved herself in a relationship with him. They are both At Fault, and not just one of them.

What you can do is either move on from your relationship with them both because something like that can be overwhelming to deal with, even if you know they are happy together and meant you no harm. On the other hand, you can voice your opinion on how you feel, why you think they shouldn't be together, and as a result, go on from there.

Answer 3

Nothing - move on. A real friend would not do such a thing - so they are meant to be together at this time but remember if they did this to you to be with one another one of them will leave the other when someone else comes along again - so its best you got out when you did. Move forward and let them have one another.

Answer 4

Then she is not a real and true friend and doesn't deserves to be friends with you. If your boyfriend goes along with it and goes out with her instead then you should consider him a horrible person too and you should forget about the both of them. Get someone new or concentrate on something else.

~Ivy~

Well if your boyfriend is divoted to loving you then their is nothing to worry about. But if you guys just met and have a distant relationship that so called friend can steal him from you and you won't even know it. That's not a real friend that is a back staber who is jelous of you because you don't have to put make up on too look pretty or spend 3 hours in the morning just to get ready. She maybe relation but that don't mean you have to like her you can avoid her at all times. But if she does steal your boyfriend that means she s not a real friend and you boyfriend is to weak and easy to see what kind of game she is playing. Yeah boys mess up all the time and apoligize and mean it but when they risk you love for someone who has a name I am not going to say its to late they have lost something really good just because they couldn't see past her eyes filled will lies. But when they see you they can see that yours is filled with tears. But back to the point forget both of them. hear is something that has always helped me. my mom used to say : YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD SMILE WHEN YOUR SAD PEOPLE CHANGE, THINGS CHANGE ,BUT LIFE GOES ON.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH ALL YOU GUYS! Oh and i wouldn't trust her bcuz if shes does it once... se will do it twice... i learned from expirience...

Answer 5

Well Iv had the same thing happen to me. I confronted my best friend and told her that we should be able to trust each other. I talked to her boy friend and made sure we both knew we both didn't have something going on and we both didn't want my best friend to get hurt. Explain to her that you have no emotions for him. If she doesn't believe you after you and her boy friend confront her then she isn't someone that should stick around. Best friends are about trusting each other <3 Hope I helped.

Live.

Laugh.

Love.

Talk to her about it!

Tell her she should trust you, and you'd never do that to her.

Talk to her bf with her beside and confess that nothing is going on between you two.

Then afterwards, don't have much contact with her bf for about 2 weeks.

If that doesn't help, stay away from her bf until she has full trust in you again.

! ☺☻

Answer 6

The first thing you do is re-assess if this person is actually a friend or not! Then you remember that if he goes with her, you never really had him to begin with, and if he is truly yours, he won't go with her. Either way, you come out ahead.

Answer 7

If he can be so easily stolen, he isn't worth worrying about!

Answer 8

You recognize that the boyfriend in question is not a good fit for you is not sufficiently dedicated to your cause to be a suitable mate. Throw it back and wait for a better fish.