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Is she clingy, nagging, won't let go? Is he doing everything he can to keep her at arm's length? Or is he allowing her to cling to him, perhaps even using the baby as a manipulation? If he doesn't mind her clinging and continues to allow it to go on, perhaps you should evaluate whether he still loves her or whether he is simply too weak to stand up for himself and his new relationship with you. It's very important for you to understand, however, that when a man and a woman have a baby together, they are linked, bonded, attached through that child for the duration of that child's life (there are exceptions, of course; some men are simply not in their childrens' lives). Ask yourself, am I willing to accept that my boyfriend has a baby by someone else and will more than likely be dealing with the mother for years and years?

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ignore the baby mama. if the bf asks what he should do. give him your opinion and try to put yourself in his shoes and imagine what you'd do.

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