Your ex filed an restraining order against you and you are not been served yet and he came to visit and communicated with you is he violating his order?

Answer 1

Typically a person cannot violate their own order. In other words, if he has an order of protection against you, and voluntarily comes near you, you must move away from him, or you are the one in violation. If he calls you, and you do not hang up, you are in violation.

You do not, however, have to leave your own home, should he show up. But you should not let him in.

That's what usually applies when you've been served. As you haven't, you have a free pass the first time, for when the police respond, they'll simply serve you then.

All that said, the laws vary from state to state. You would do well to consult with an attorney at once, so as to learn what specifically applies to you in your state, and how to guard your rights.

Another View:

The first statment contained in the foregoing answer is INCORRECT! The last statement contained in the foregoing answer is CORRECT. The petitioner of a restraining order, having been successfully awarded the order, cannot then violate his own order, and use it as a tool to intimidate and approach the very person HE wishes the court to keep away from him. He is as subject to arrest for violating the order as she would be if she was the one who approached him, instead of vice-versa.