Your mother is a sociopath you think as you have really suffered over the years with her Now you have your own family you have cut off links with her as the only solution you know to keeping us all sa?

Answer 1

Sounds like a good plan. Avoiding people like that is the only way to keep them from running roughshod through your life. Whether or not she is a sociopath is immaterial. The important thing is that you believed it was necessary to cut the ties. Undoubtedly you were right, as people do not make decisions like that unless forced into them.

Know that you are doing what is right for your family, unlike the way you were treated. You might also consider getting some counseling, as living with people like that invariably marks their victims emotionally. Working on yourself will make you a better influence on your own family, and you'll be a much happier person overall.